Khandana Bhava Bandhana Lecture 08 on 09 June 2019

So we are Discussing Kandana bava  bandana. When Swami Vivekananda composed this hymn, Nothing, but the Upanishads have been put in this particular form. For every word, we can find one equivalent Upanishadic word. We  have already given some references.

tyâgîs‧vara he nar‧avara deha‧pade anurâg:  This is what we discussed now. Tyagiswara – he is the emperor of renunciation. What  is renunciation? Giving  up, complete attachment that is called renunciation. So the first meaning of renunciation is dheha, mana, abhimana thyaga.  

I am the body. I am the Mind. Whether  a person is a devotee or he is a gnani or Yogi. So, how does you if he is a  karma Yogi, he gives up attachment to the result. Results always Come in two forms results of actions Come only in two forms. What are they sukha and dhukka. So sukha and dhukka affect whom? Only the body and mind. Body  and mind. Therefore one he gives up his karma pala is a karma yogi.

It means he equally looks upon both Suka as well as dhukka. Okay, then what about gnani? completely …..? The whole world is mithya. Certain words, we have to understand Very clearly keep in mind on this. There is no world other than body and mind. And if you don't have identity with the body and mind, you will not have any world. Example, When you are in deep Sleep, we have body mind consciousness.

Therefore there is no world. There is no world. So for a gnani worlds is mithya. Therefore the body mind is mithya.   then every mithya, you understand What is mithya? mithya means unreal. No, because you will get the real thing; if there is a shadow there must be an object.

Put it opposite way. No senses. No world. That's why in your deep sleep, You don't have any of these things. That is why you don't have any world at all. But what is there? When  do you get the greatest happiness? Tell me. When do you get a greatest happiness?

Harm less one. Just put it in some other place. So there is something very interesting you know. You are hungry. That is you acutely aware of one part of the body. Then you eat food; as a result of eating food what happens? The  sensation or awareness of that particular part of the body becomes completely absent.

That means there is no activity. That is called Happiness. Yes, when there is nobody, there is a bodily happiness. When There is no mind, mind happiness. But when there is nobody mind complete happiness. That's why we are so happy. Sukam aham aswabsam. I slept very happily.

I did not know anything.  Na kinchit avedhisahm. These are our greatest psychological truths, Not only Vedantic truths, psychological truths. In fact, there is no Vedanta excepting psychology. Vedanta  starts with the bondage. Bondage  belongs to be mind.  Solution  also comes from the mind when there is no mind, There is no Bondage  & there is no solution at all.

So You are contradicting yourself. I was there who is having deep sleep. Do you know, what is deep sleep. Let me put it this way. I am devoid of body mind. That is called deep sleep. Problems come.

You see this is the greatest mistake people commit. How  they commit this mistake, I cannot figure it out. You are telling that I was completely unaware. Are you aware that you are unaware?

So that I is not aware of non “I”. But  it is fully aware of this is “me”. Follow that one? In deep Sleep so many people have these problems. It's a complete awareness of me when I look at the table, this  deep,  hard.  

I'm, I forget myself. Then there is no table hard then I am aware of Myself. So this is the greatest truth. We have to understand when I am alone. I am very happy.

I hope you're following it. When I'm alone, I have no problem. No problem means not a zero experience; complete experience of Happiness Is God they have missed the movement. See if I take this wall out.

Complete sunlight will come in. What is limiting the sunlight? The walls. Dheha, mana is the body mind is like that it puts a limit to my happiness. And that's why you remove a little bit of that limitation, You feel very happy. What is it? Yogurts, you're very hungry. That is a limitation you remove that.

Hunger by eating food, and he said I'm very happy. What were you before happiness came? Unlimited body mind is a limitation. I can only tell what I understand. It is up to you how much you take it further.(QA:Yes. Yes. Okay. This is a good time but very shortly I will do it.)

Happiness, Love, memory And interest All these are synonymous names. Whatever you are interested in that remains in your memory. Whatever you are interested and to the degree of your interest your happiness also, will increase.

Your memory also will increase. So my favorite example, a young man is walking; another girl from the other side of pavement smiles at him. He will never forget. Suppose she says my name is so & so, he will never forget. all examinations, Lessons he forgets. why?  

Interest is there, Deep interest is there; and we cannot pick whatever we are interested in it cannot but produce love. If you don't love something, it won't give you interest and you won’t love something which will not give you happiness.

Can you love something which doesn't give you happiness, whether it is another human being, a book, a cinema or shirt or any other thing.

No, I'm talking specifically about happiness. You will not love necessarily you may use it. Like I am using that  soppu  or getting rid of my this one(jaundice) so bitter, so I have to disguise it with some yogurt and other things.

So straight away, we don't eat it. Sri Ramakrishna also may eat it.  Sadashiva  brahmendra may eat it. I will also eat it. Why? Because  I have to eat. Given  a choice, I will not. So that is what I am telling.

That  which you love, you are sure it will give you happiness; and it will give you happiness. Even if it is not happy, My point is there is happiness there. So you love it. Not that way you love it because it gives you that. The  same thing may  not give happiness to somebody else.

Love, interest, memory, joy, concentration these 5 things are synonymous. Now what happens? Let me first give you an example why we love something and why it gives happiness. True happiness doesn't lie anywhere. It is only my happiness.

First  I'll give you an analogy. You keep a mirror in front of you this very dirty mirror. How much of your reflection as you are can be seen there. The more dirty, It is the less you see yourself. If you can completely clean it, then there would be absolutely no difference between you as you are and the reflection. You are so so so much. Yeah until the time you are God. I am a devotee, because of a distance.

Okay now follows an example. You love a sweet. Then you eat this sweet. What happens? how does how does happiness comes from? Does it come from the sweet? No.

Where from is it coming? From  yourself? But what is the sweet doing? It is removing the covering of your happiness by your thought, “I like to eat this sweet. That desire. A  desire comes like a black cloud. And that desire is removed by the object. And when that the cloud is removed by the act of fulfilling that desire Then the happiness within you naturally flows out.

But then we mistake this happiness is coming from the object. Now you understand. ultimately it is the chaitanyananda  which is actually coming.

Love is Oneness and that when a mother loves her child, she may not be a psychologist. But she feels anything happens for the child is happening to me. That means that lady is identifying herself with the child.

Similarly Sri Ramakrishna or Sarada Devi (Holy Mother) They love us because they are identified with us. We may not love them. Because, we have not identified with them. In fact, we get bored. Can I use this word or suppose you are  meditating. What  is meditation trying to become one with? Sri Ramakrishna  isn't it? After  half an hour what happens you get bored.

That means instead of praying, saying oh Ramakrishna you are a very boring person as far as I'm concerned, we dare not say that this much happiness this much meditation is more than you deserve.

Kamsa. Kamsa was the greatest devotee of Sri Krishna That is why he was constantly fearful of Krishna. But what is the object of the fear? Here is something very important.

These are all important things for Sadhana. Here is a person who hates another person. This is hatred. Here is one person who fears another person, that is fear. But what is the object? you love Somebody? There is an object. You  fear somebody. There  is another object. You  hate somebody there is another object.

Did you take it doesn't depend upon whether you are loving or hating. What is the object towards which Your Love or hatred is directed.

If it is God, It will release you. Why because I tell you something very interesting it is taking time. What is the nature of God? Freedom. But his nature of God ananda. Ananda. So  here is suppose you hate God. Whom  are you thinking? And what is the nature of God?

Happiness, you're getting so much of happiness. And the more you think of here to here to guard the more happiness you are getting. What is the nature of God? Freedom you become free from your hatred? So, you love him. you lust after him Kama. But  who is the object God if the object is another binding object, then it will double your bondage.

Already  you’re in bondage. That  object also will find you more But here is  God there's a I give two examples one is Ananda. Ananda means freedom. So if you're free you get Ananda. Freedom & Ananda are synonymous. Can you understand that.

I am elaborating it even for this. I will tell you how? You  get hungry when you are hungry. Your mind is agitated, and that's a bondage. Then you eat food. What is the food to do to you? Used correctly it removed your limitation your bondage of this desire. Removal of this desire is called freedom. So God is freedom. You meditate upon God you hate God and you do anything with God. What is he going to do? Because, you are meditating ultimately upon whom? Freedom.  

Because we cannot understand what is the dimension of Freedom, Therefore we use the word God. That is where we bring in personality. Whatever it is whether you hate, you fear, you love, you have devotion - What makes us either bound or free is not your feelings, but the object. Because the nature of the object will make you Free.

So we say, you know, somebody is frying some Vada. And there was a pot of ghee nearby. Somehow this Vada slipped & fell into the  hot ghee.  Is it a good thing or bad thing..

Hot ghee. This Vada  now has become what Vada?  Maddhur Vada. Ghee Vada. which is even better isn’t it. So we have trying to fry ourselves with the world’s hot oil, suddenly for some reason you got angry with God and you finally you fell into that Ghee pot. what do you  become. You Fall into sugar syrup.

What will you become. Syrup.  Suppose  a fly falls into a sugar syrup after that it solidifies afterwards eat it, afterwards, can you make any difference between the true creamy and sugar. Several  mangoes the moment mango comes, you know, kacha,(raw) kacha you eat.

So because they are eating only they are also mango. You are also men after eating. What do you become?

So love, freedom, happiness are synonymous with memory, interest.

Now you think clear is it clear? Okay, and at least  for this class. I hope so. Tyagiswara are talking about Thyaga.. What Thyaga? Anybody who gives up what is limiting? Now here is another psychology; when  I'm talking like this you have to note down certain important points. If I meditate upon some limited thing, Not only that thing is limited a limited thing will make me also limited.

Simple  example, you're making friendship with a fellow who is an idiot. If I make friendship with an idiot, what am I going to turn into? Idiot. If I cultivate company of sath what I am going to turn into? Sath.. Oh This is the cycle now you understand. What is the effect of Sangha?

So Sri Ramakrishna  is some example his own examples. There are so many fossils available. Frozen living what is called with dead animals without the least bit of degeneration.

They found out near Neanderthal  human being they found out a mammoth in Siberia or somewhere, Arctic Range, and they found out one small girl completely Frozen so many 50,000 even more number of years.

Now there is a possibility that she might be reconstructed also from the DNA. Because, if it is frozen the DNA is also not dead but it is frozen. Big  Moral questions are coming. I don’t want to go into it. What is my point now that God is such a object at all. But you become that. Not only that I am giving you another very deep point. When I think of a chair, how do I think of it chair? I become one with the chair. So when I'm looking at the chair. For  example this table  I'm only looking at this. I don't know, What is here? Therefore for me the ignorance of the bottom part is unless I bent down and look is it So Is my point that whenever we experience any object we become totally identified with that object. This is the Indian philosophical theory of knowledge. How do we get knowledge of anything?

Our whole mind like a mould goes and becomes that chair. I hope you understood now when you think of any limited object. What are you going to become? Limited person. When you are thinking of God, What are you going to become? Unlimited.

That is why whether Kamsa  feared him,  Sisupala Dantavakra  hated him yashoda, the gopis and gopas all loved him in these various ways. One is a child. Another has a friend another as a lover and so on, the object is completely God and they know that He is God.

Don't think this yashoda that as a no because she had Vision. She has seen Eric ins that for seven days. He was Keeping the whole Govardhana mountain like this. His father told Baba Krishna, you bring my Chapels. No no I am a small kid how can I carry such a huge weight. This fellow happily was holding him. This is called Leela. But We forget it.

So God - the idea that this is God - should be there. But God's grace is even if you don't know that He is God, but you have some idea about God. He will forgive the whole lot, He will make you Himself. What is the psychology? If I want to know about chair, I must become one with the chair .

If  I want to know about God, I must become one with God. Therefore you fear God one way of thinking, hate God another way of thinking, and you Love God another way of thinking. Anyway of dvesha - any way of thinking God it will only liberating because you are going to become one with Him.

I hope now this is related to our subject. What is it? Thyagiswara. Sri Ramakrishna is called Thyagiswara. What holy mother said. So some Disciple asked holy mother, Sri Ramakrishna  practiced so many spiritual disciplines as a Hindu he among Hindus mean purana, tantrika , vaidika.

Among puranas vaishnava, Shasta and Siva bakthi – purana means Bakthi. Tantrika  64 important primary scriptures of Tantra Bairavi Brahmnai  had made him go through. Why what is vaidika. Advaitha Vedanta.  

In everyone he succeeded. So is it not the greatest things Sri Ramakrishna had accomplished? some devotees were remarking to holy mother. Instantaneously she said no that is not the great thing. He did because he is was insatiable. But his greatest quality is Thyaga.

I have never seen in my life, Anybody who is so much of a thyagi. What is thyaga ultimately? not giving up a chair, or not giving up, you know one man had 16 wives. Having 16 children or more he started he thought it is time to give up. one by one was giving up.

So there was another person who was married only once so the wife of that person started to ridicule him. Look  at the renunciation of that Fellow. 16 wives he is giving up one by one. And you are nothing, that what she meant. Always wives surfer.

So this Fellows, he was going to take a bath. He said you are mad cap. You don't know what is in us. He will never be able to keep up. At least he's better than you. you say so. all right for the day bye - that with that when he left and never returned back. afterwards whole life she was meditating. Why did  those words come out of my mouth? So what is thyaga Abhimana thyaga.

What is abhimana – body abhimana, mind abhimana. what else is there? The whole world is God. If  I am not the body mind the whole world is God. If  I am not body conscious, I won't say any body. This is another insight. if I don't see mind, then I won't see anything in them. Can you understand that. is Sri Ramakrishna , Holy mother seeing a body. Yes they are seeing; you know how – just as you see figures on the cinema.

You don't suffer. Somebody in a cinema - Cinema this fellow is feeling I am hungry. Will you run taking some Rasagulla. What  do you do? Enjoy it, Because it is only a figure. Like  that, I see a everybody as a shadow. That's what's Sri Ramakrishna sees.

That ultimate knowledge, I am not the body mind is the characteristic of every Jeevan Muktha. But Sri Ramakrishna  it has reached  the very Peak. That's why Sri Ramakrishna  so many incidents. I'm just coming like that. Once you know, He sat for food; and with so many items seven eight items. His own disciples - I tell you is these disciples are unreliable fellows – who outside they're doing good-  inside they  are criticizing.

So, this one disciple thought “ Oh! this man he loves to eat so many varieties”.  not telling anything outside; as though is gatha, gatha with the devotion - inside critical. What does it mean? What the hell Are you doing? I am also here. You should be a guru only drishti boga. Sishyas will be actual bogas. As Prasad. Actually, we are gathering around a guru and instead of let your cata, cata Kacha kacha you are eating now.

That's then Sri Ramakrishna he could read everybody’s mind like things kept in hand or a glass  Almirah. So he said do you know why I give out these things by natural tendency is towards the impersonal. The moment there is nothing to hold me my mind ooh like that, It will go into Samadhi. That's why I create artificial  desires. I want to eat soppu,  to show that you know better than God adhibouthika very beautifully. They make your to eat it after that. You don't want to eat anything if they are good Cooks otherwise afterwards you never want to eat it.

Once Sri Ramakrishna said “ I want to go to Calcutta to see some devotees”. Has he got desires? No.  He wants to keep his mind on our level for whose benefit. Our benefit. There is what is called jagadiswara.

Then in the scriptures, there are four types of desires are there. All the objects fall into these 4 categories. Puthreshana, dhareshana, vitheshana, lokeshana some people add one more shastreshana. Eshana means intense desire. Puthreshana - I want a son.

A father wants a son; not a daughter. Because daughter is druhitah – means one who milks the cow, but in later on in Indian Society, she milks the whole family. Dowry. Dowry system.

So Puthreshana  why – in olden times people thought that if a man has got a son he will save him from a special hell called “pom Nama narakath tryathe ithi puthra:”  If a person doesn't have a male child, that fellow will go to hell. How does he go to hell? Because he will not be given tharpana, you know monthly rites all shraddha's Etc. Yearly. Some people do practically every day. And it is this which keeps the father from going to hell.

That  means somebody to continue the traditions of the lineage. Bagavad Gita  also, it refers when wars take place, the men will be destroyed. Then there is nobody to uphold the then they all our ancestors relating  to narakha.(hell).

Those are the reasons Arjuna give to Sri Krishna. First  lecture was given by Arjuna.  Afterwards Only Krishna took Revenge. He never allowed  him to open his mouth.

Yeah. The  whole first chapter is what? and a few slokas of the second chapter. What  Arjuna’s defense of why he wants to renounce  the world and not take part in the war. now? What are we talking about? Puthreshana.

Then Dhareshana when somebody is in Vedic rituals as a house holder cannot perform rituals without Dharma Pathnee  That is why Rama had banished Sita. So he has to make a Golden Sita in order to complete the yagnas Yagas. That is why Dhara is necessary.

But  the Vedas are also intelligent. They are covering up. In the name of this every man really will have a desire for enjoying a woman & voice versa. There, but the main purpose is to be get the children and to perform the yagnas &  Yagas.  So a man will have a desire for Dhara. It is called Dhareshana.

Then - viththeshana. Man requires money? Viththa means wealth. Why wealth for two purposes, but three purposes one has to enjoy life first purpose,

One has to maintain the family, children, Disciples is the second factor. Viththa  is most important wealth is most important for performing rituals. So all these things are necessary for the sake of what?

So Puthreshana, dhareshana, vitheshana. we have covered the three. there is a fourth Eshana., you know, what is the fourth Eshana? This  is called lokeshana.  Loka means not only this world but swarga, indra,  prajapadhi, brihaspathi Etc higher worlds are there.  Man wants attain to those higher worlds.  why because man also wants to attain higher and still here and still higher happiness. So this is called lokeshana.

So this is how many how many desires we got four what are  they? Puthreshana, dhareshana, vitheshana, lokeshana. There is one more shastreshana.  Some  swamis they want to go deep into the scriptures. They get so much of Joy. I had simple words. I love to read wonderful books.

Anybody doesn't love to read one wonderful books is a useless fellow. He is a stunted fellow. Because we have to expand our intellectual Grasp. That  is very important for us.

So One who gives up all these five types of desires. He is a real Renouncer. anyone  desire that fellow will be tightly  bound to this world. So Sri Ramakrishna prayed to Mother, here is your Dharma, here is  your adharma here is your good here is your evil - here is everything.

But I don't want anything mother. I  want a high bakthi towards you I want motiveless devotion.

And so many people devotees, How can I get  motiveless devotion.  One second; next second. I have a desire to buy Tesla’s has electric car.

Yes. One  of my disciples, Went and  purchased 80,000 pounds Just walked in bought it. And when he came here he gave me a hundred rupees donation. I just laughed.

Which is blocking this fellow who wants a high Bakthi. He wants moksha. They don’t know what they are talking. Like mad caps, like drunken fellows they go on talking. What they are talking? What the right hand is doing the left hand does not know.

Now this is why will they say let not your left hand know what your right hand is to do, you know, what is the meaning of it? Whatever philanthropy or charity your right hand is doing. Let nobody know. not even the left hand - you forget it that I have done it. Otherwise of abhimana I did it. Let left hand not know means completely forget it.  I have the capacity. God has given me the desire to do. I just do. it is God's money being given to God.

Swami Saradananadaji, sending one brahmachary for Relief work. And then the man asked how should we conduct the relief work? If I beautiful reply. Do you know what he said? the things you are Distributing among the poor people. They don't belong to you. Somebody is donating it and you are giving.

So somebody's property is being given to somebody else. But where do you come in? Give it lovingly, not expecting anything. And Whatever be their reaction not have an Abi Mana. Somebody says you gave that said of better saree, you gave me a rotten saree.

I am telling from my personal experience, Bangladesh 1971 I I was at Sirajganj.  So we collected some old Sarees,  second hand sarees, very good sarees. And was Distributing one fellow came said, “ to that person to that lady you gave such beautiful Saree. And then to  my wife you're giving a third-class Saree why this discrimination?

At least he only criticized me that much. my Swami Gokulananda, He said you liked her - that lady, That's why you gave a better saree.(thundering outburst of laughter from the audience)

I was happy he did not make charged me with that. You see people are there. That is why, Easwar Chandra Vidyasagar  used to say, one day he was walking, with his friend. His  friend said such and such a person is abusing you.  Easwar Chandra Vidyasagar  said I don't remember having done any good to him. Why is he is abusing me?

That means what? If you do something good only they will abuse you. if you don't do any good, they will forget you immediately. This fellow is not worth even considering.  the other fellow. He could have given a little more.

We have got a beautiful saying in Telugu.  A beggar has come. And the household are not there is a measuring  vessel and he filled it up with some Dan and he gives that's the way is there a hole in that? Okay, what are we talking..Puthreshana, dhareshana, vitheshana, lokeshana and shastreshana. One who gives up These things he is a real jagadiswara.

but there is a psychology here if we want to give up something. We will never be able to give up unless we are hoping to get something better. So what is that better thing here only God and a person who knows that this is a better thing only then you will be able to give this is another deep insight. unless you are sure you're going to get something better. You cannot simply give up something which is an inferior quality. I don't know the whether I told you this story at really beautiful story.

There was a poor man if He wanted to become rich so he went to a sadhu. Local sadhu. How can I become rich please show me the way. He  said, yes, you see the mountain in front of your village on the top of that mountain is a sadhu another holy man lives.  I heard that he has a what you call Rasa Vedhi,(Sparasa Vedhi) That which you turns Metals into gold. Philosopher’s stone. I do not know why it is called Philosopher’s stone - philosopher doesn't want those things.

Anyway, philosopher Stones. I heard he has got, you can  go and ask him if he has got he will give it to you. So this fellow had to take three days to climb. He climbed, found out this sadhu, this sadhu for another  for 50 years that sadhu had not seen another human being.

He was very happy. What can I do? What brings you here? Very frankly he said, I want to become rich. I heard that you have this philosopher's stone “Sparsa Vedhi” it is called.

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“Sparsa Vedhi”. They will become the moment you touch any metal will turn into gold. So, can you please, Sir, give it to me?

The Sadhu said I have got one Good news and one bad news. The bad news is, the moment I came here, I just threw it away.

The good news is after I threw it away, Nobody had ever come here. So it should be lying down somewhere. So you can go search for it? So this you should be praised and the man went searched within a short time. He got something there are some useless Metals nearby. He touched it. It    immediately turned into  gold!!

And he came and made sashtanga pranam  and said I am so grateful to you and then may be three pranams. But he started coming down for three days. He had to come down. Three days. He was not having sleep. Now. What shall I do? I will turn metal into gold. I resell it. I become a rich man. Where do I buy a land? Where do I buy some buildings? Whom am I going to marry? And what is she going to demand etc, etc, all “gonthemma korikalu”.

Three days. After  three days, He got exhausted fell asleep for the first time. Got  up with fresh mind became calm and  quiet then he said “array this person had it for 50 years. He gave it up. No fool will give it up anything unless he's a fool unless he's getting something much more valuable.

I must find out immediately again another three days and they sadhu  asked him, what brings you here. Then he said you sir you had this you give this up? You must have got something much more precious than this. The sadhu said yes, do you want to have that something more precious. He  said yes, throw that out.  I will tell you.  until you throw it out. I will know that it is only idle curiosity you don't want.

So  that fellow threw it out. Then he told him about “God” and that is the greatest Labha anybody can have.

This is what Sri Ramakrishna says, all this clever fellows were like crows learning a growth from morning till evening runs after what. Only filth. A real clever fellow is one who gives up all these things and he will only thinks on one thing. What is that - nothing but God. What a beautiful thing. This idea is. So  Sri Ramakrishna  is unparalleled thyaga, first.

Second  if we want to give up, we can give up but it will come as a result of tremendous effort. For  Sri Ramakrishna it came effortlessly. As if it is very natural; as if he was born with the love of God. Some  people you see from the very beginning. So that is why Swami Vivekananda he had not simply like a poet he sat down and wrote. He meditated years and years and years upon Takur, condensed the essence of his meditation and this is the result. And as I said Oh swamij, Saptha Rishi, rishi, From rishi’s mouth. Nothing else Will come excepting Upanishad.

What is Upanishad ? that which destroys worldly bondage is called Upanishad. That is why Sri Ramakrishna’s gospel is a vedha. Upanishad. Yeah.

Haynaravara.  Last class I mentioned,  every human being is not yet fit to be called a human being so there are three Nature's. Thalassic  nature,  rajasika nature and Sathvika nature. Human  beings are divided into three categories. Rakshasa or Asura, manusha, and deivika.

In  the Upanishad, There is a story. chandogya Upanishad. There is a story Rakshasas, asuras And human beings manusha and the Devathas has all of them prayed to prajapadhi – Brahma, guide us enlighten us. Give us some thing. And his teaching came in the form of a thunder.

What is the Dha, Dha, Dha- then prajapadhi asked asuras –Did you understand what I  said. Yes, Sir, made Pranam & Departed. He asked human beings did you understand What I said. Yes Sir. They made pranams  and departed. The Devathas they were asked do you do understand? They made pranams  and departed. So the Upanishad is explained. What is it explaining?

What is the nature of Rakshasas, cruelty. Therefore  overcome cruelty with it opposite quality. What is that opposite quality. Dhaya. Dayadhwam, Dayadhwam, Dayadhwam. Be compassionate, Be kind and compassionate.

What is the nature of human beings miserliness? What is the opposite of miserliness? Generosity Dhanadwam, Dhanadwam, Dhanadwam. what does it mean Dheeyatham, Dheeyatham, Dheeyatham .  give give give give up you.

And then what is the Nature of Devathas? Unlimited enjoyment. So Damayadham- Damadhwam, Damadhwam, Damadhwam. Control  of the sense organs is called dama.

So we are talking about human beings every human being suffers from many complexes. Of these complexes psychologist divide this complex into 2 categories. What are they. inferiority and superiority. It is a big subject. I will deal only in brief.. The first this complexion comes from the body. What is the body?  Somebody is tall, hefty, strong when he sees a cookja a dwarf? He feels Superior, he may not express it. He feels be real. If, a person is very beautiful and he encounters an ugly person. A rich person and Learned person. Body  and quality.

This is called superiority complex. There are two types of superiority complex. Some people really have those things.

And They don't have a right but they feel Superior. Some people don't have but feel Superior. Understand now. Similarly inferiority complex. Then you took up only when you are. You're walking and you took your to look up your companion. How do you feel?

Inferior. So there was this fellow who are suffering who thought he was suffering from inferiority complex . He went to a psychiatrist. And got treatment for three years. After three years psychiatrist said I'm terminating your treatment patient gabar agaya. I have not been cured of my ailment, I still feel very inferior. It is only after three years, I discovered you are not suffering from inferiority complex you are inferior. ( Big Laughter)For that there is no cure.

Complex can be overcome, but this fellow. painful. So we are all suffering lack of self-confidence and lack of willpower. These are all complexes. Most  of the people Suffering from Psychiatric problems other either Superior 30 complex the whole cosmetic Industry is based upon what?

Inferiority complex. My  nose it is like that. I What to make it like that. This fellow brings one chisel and hammer  to and fit and then stitches it. Are  you happy? Mm mm mm…Yeah, like that he tells. I've seen it at that film.BBC. All these things they show very nicely.

So inferiority complex. Sri Ramakrishna  feels neither inferior or Superior. Why because he never considered himself and yet he knows this is a Divine body. Divinity is fully manifest in this particular body. So the nar‧avara. But there is something else. Previously psychology used to deal it started. What is the cause of mental diseases? First find out diagnose and then find out a way to cure the person from that. From physical Medical Science also, how did it start?

Man is suffering from physical some diseases. Find out the cause. Try to help the person and that was the goal. Now  completely changed. What is it? What is the optimum physical health? What is a of optimum Mental Health?

Carl Ransom Rogers (January 8, 1902 – February 4, 1987),Abraham Maslow.( April 1, 1908 – June 8, 1970) Karen All these peoples latest it is to means not very latest Erik Erikson - from all these fellows have devoted their entire lives to define What is the nature  personality?

In today's class. I'm just going to out read out the outline and then if there is anything we can discuss it later on.

So much meaning I find in this is no less than studying. Upanishads. . Yeah, we are here. We are not even nature human beings. We are not what are we so I'm According to Swami Vivekananda touch-me-not plants. Is somebody even touches with the breath-we will shrink.

You Understand what I'm talking about. So sensitive we have become somebody looks at you. You feel bad. Somebody doesn't look at you, you feel bad. if somebody smiles at you feel bad. If somebody doesn't smile at you, you feel bad.. Does not talk  with you for everything you feel bad. Oh! Rama!

Okay.

I will just read out.

Characteristics of a Nature personality - Nature person has a thorough knowledge of the workings of his mind is completely aware of what is going on in his mind second. He knows his assets and liabilities. He knows what are his good points. Also, what is it deficient in not imagining he knows it. He becomes an integrated personality. Swami Yathiswaranandaji M in that book marvelous book meditation and spiritual life one whole chapter has been devoted to this particular subject. What is it? Integration of personality.

The subconscious the unconscious and the conscious and the super conscious must be completely integrated other ways, but does he become split personality? You know me around we all suffer from what is called if MB PCS cmps MPS multiple personality syndrome Multiple Market because at home, we are somebody in the office. We are somebody and in the club, we are somebody there is no integration that is why. So many mental problems are coming. So a nature person becomes totally integrated. I think I have also mentioned it earlier something very important.

Or do you that according to William James when a Christian becomes converted that conversion takes place?

In three ways three characteristics, you know, what is that first? He becomes integrated for Life converted for Life. Secondly. It is always a journey from the lower to the higher and thirdly his. Sorry.

I got here, but you're talking especially find out what it is. Okay.

And thirdly the person's inner and outer personality. There will be no split. What does that mean? That means if he is spiritual inside his spiritual also outside. So what are what is we doing? Like they say in and marvadi’ s shop. Visiting their front there will be Krishna picture player every day morning is known he opens he lights of the incense and does it. But  if any B the money transaction has to take place and B has to be converted into w.

He will turn Krishna’s picture towards the wall. Finishes his transaction Turns smilingly The photo of  Krishna Hare Krishna did not know anything about it. So when we are in the temple or Saints not really sensitive people also there are devils. They go on talking. From the back And the children are making so much of noise. And some fellow is coughing out who asked you to venue are coughing coughs of money. Why are you passing ordinary Cough - infectious, cough?

You know English word coffee giving out. He never brings any money not even chilli kasu. So he is creating so much of disturbance to other people. He is not even aware of that. Anyway, but I'm not talking about it when a person comes completely converted. Then the third but it is between the inner and the outer absolutely integrated. The unconscious subconscious and conscious and the super conscious the spiritual and the secular the body and mind completely they must be integrated. Then nature person accepts himself loves himself and takes upon responsibility for himself. He doesn't blame anybody if I am here today this way with responsible. I am responsible. So I must make effort if I want to become better upon myself.

He has a clearly defined philosophy and goal in life. He lives in the present taking the past and the future into consideration and learning their lessons. His steadfast is optimistic cheerful but realistic attitude towards life and world. He suffers neither from a superiority nor an inferiority complex. He has sufficient self-control to sacrifice weaknesses and defects. He constantly strives to improve himself without getting frustrated. He always Tries to see the best in others. He forgives himself and others. He integrates evil and suffering as stepping stones to a better life.

He has a place a definite routine for everything in life. He can objectify himself called self-objectification. Understand.   he can look at himself as others are looking at himself. he has a keen sense of humor without becoming a buffoon. Nature people have a very realistic self image of what they can do and are not threatened by their weaknesses. They are also able to laugh at their weaknesses and we'll close this talk with one particular quotation. Somebody had quipped I don't know who - he quipped if anybody has the ability to laugh at himself, He will never lack entertainment in his life.